婚恋

什么都听妈妈的、缺乏主见的成年男性。

EN"Mama's boy" — a grown man who lets his mother run his life.

出身农村、靠自己奋斗进城的男性，常与婚恋、家庭矛盾话题相关。

EN"Phoenix man" — a man from rural poverty who made it to the city; loaded with baggage in marriage debates.

婚后仍无条件帮扶弟弟、被原生家庭索取的女性。

EN"Brother feeder" — a woman whose family siphons her resources to support her brother.

男方家庭按习俗在结婚时给女方家庭的礼金财物，近年常引发婚恋争议。

ENBride price — customary betrothal money/gifts, a perennial hot-button topic.

「官方宣布」的缩写；2018年因明星以「官宣」二字公布婚讯而爆火，后泛指正式公开消息，尤其恋情、喜讯。

ENShorthand for "official announcement"; exploded after a 2018 celebrity wedding post, now used for any formal public statement, especially relationships.

认识不久就迅速结婚，与「闪离」相对。

EN"Flash marriage" — tying the knot almost immediately after meeting.

网络热梗：2024年底兴起于抖音——自称「力工」的男性把全部积蓄像梭哈一样押进娶妻生子（彩礼、房首付）的婚恋叙事，被视为高风险的「一把梭」人生策略，也用于反思彩礼与婚恋焦虑。

EN"Laborer's all-in" — a Douyin meme (late 2024) about the man who bets every cent on marriage — bride price, down payment — one show-hand against traditional family goals.

娱乐圈用语：已婚但对外隐瞒身份，明星常见操作。

EN"Secret marriage" — staying married while publicly single; a celeb staple.

玄学圈词：命里注定的正牌姻缘，与「烂桃花」相对。

EN"Destined love" — the fated right partner, vs. bad romance.

接别人玩剩的、接手烂摊子的人；婚恋语境指接盘前任的伴侣。

EN"Bag holder" — someone left holding the bag, often a partner taking the ex's burden.

经人介绍、以结婚为目的的见面，年轻人春节的经典压力源。

EN"Blind date" — arranged meetings aimed at marriage; the Spring Festival classic.

父母长辈催促子女结婚的行为，年轻人的年度压力话题。

EN"Marriage pressure" — parents pushing their kids to tie the knot.

常被调侃「接盘」的老实本分的人；「老实人招谁惹谁了」。

EN"Nice guy" — the dependable one who always ends up settling, meme-ly speaking.